A virtuous wife is the woman who builds home for God on a real man’s foundation- the good foundation provided by her own husband.
WORK ON YOUR WIFE THROUGH LOVE NOT BY BEIGN HARSH!
Man! Quit lashing out at your wife for not being a virtuous wife. She couldn’t have been a complete virtuous woman while she was in her parents’ house. It’s like church ministry where evangelism is done to quarry the stones from the raw earth and and brought to church for DISCIPLINING! No church does true DISCIPLINING of its members that won’t benefit from them on the long run.
YOU MUST SACRIFICE YOURSELF FOR HER!
Our Lord and Master, Jesus, will one day re-present to Himself His bride (the Church) for His approval and satisfaction over His works of grace in her life- “sanctify and cleanse her.” So, He would be satisfied as He sees His bride, glorious without spot or wrinkle, etc. (Eph 5:26,27). CAN YOU BE VERY BOLD AND HAPPY TO PRESENT YOUR WIFE- BY MAKING PEOPLE SEE HOW MUCH YOUR LOVE HAS AFFECTED HER?
YOU MUST PROVIDE THE BEST PLATFORM FOR HER! Husbandman! Give your wife the godly platform to enable her use her potential to become the virtuous wife you and the world would truly be proud of. She would make some mistakes as much as you do too; but then it’s all the same the process of training. Help her to overcome her weaknesses, instead of disgrasing her before your family and others! Love her no more and no less than God said you should Love her, for therein her manifestation as your helper is fulfilled as you reap the dividends.
YOU OWE JESUS
Husbandman! Please take a look at the woman you call your wife, and see if you are satisfied at what you see, spiritually and physically? God is capable of hindering your prayer if you magnify her weaknesses instead of building her up against them with godly wisdom (1Pet 3:7). You owe Jesus over His command that you ought to love your wife as your own body as Christ loved His bride-the church: Because he who loves his wife loves himself. (Eph 5:25, 28). God’s grace is sufficient for us as men.
JOIN THE REAL MEN FOR CHRIST WHO LAY THE RIGHT FOUNDATIONS FOR THEIR WIVES TO BECOME VIRTUOUS WIVES; BECAUSE THEY ARE GOD’S BENEFITING “HELPER” THAT WILL HELP YOUR VISION BY BIRTHING YOUR POSTERITY AND NATIONS FOR GOD.
If you are finding it very difficult to really transform your wife into becoming a virtuous wife, ASK GOD FOR THE GRACE. DON’T TAKE THE LAWS INTO YOUR HANDS TO DO OTHERWISE! There’s always a reward for whatever we do-good or bad! You might need to get wisdom from the wise- those who had been there and are successful in their marriage.
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