Anger can be expressed- rationally or irationally, suppressed or released. Expressing anger is better when it is verbally done within the ambience of scriptures and not as a tool of revenge- to give the offender ‘a piece of my mind’. SUPPRESSED (Non-verbal), is murderous in nature. It plots against the offender and internally against the one who habours the offence too, healthwise-physiologically apart from spiritual implications as well- Eccl 10:8; Eph 4:27a; Pro. 25:28; 2 Sam. 13:22-30.
Remember, within the limit of scriptures we are told, “Be angry and do not sin”. (Eph 4:26). And while you think you should get angry, we are warned never to be quick to “fly off the handle”. Eccl 7:9 MSG.
Make sure when you are expressing anger that you do not hurt anyone in wanting to revenge. If you hurt your offender or transfer your aggression on any other person and you break the Word of God, God will not spare you. For the fact that you hate the person who offended or hurt you, will never make God to hate that person. You can’t succeed enough to hate the person God still loves and He’s patient with. And as a matter of fact you’ll be leaving a “Foothold” for the devil if don’t forgive -Eph 4:27 NLT.
HAVING A STRONG GRIP ON GOD’S WORD CONTROLS YOUR GRIP FOR REVENGE ON YOUR OFFENDERS.
Let them go from the depth of your heart and God will let you go-Mrk 11:25-26; Mtt. 18:33-35; Lk 11:4. After all, you didn’t put God’s love (agape) in your heart for selected nice persons only; o NO! God did, but AMAZINGLY not for you to show to a selected few nice brethren, but for all including those who suddenly become unlovable. This may be hard no doubt! BUT THE GRACE OF GOD MAKES IT VERY POSSIBLE. Make use of His grace now.
ONLY THOSE WHO MAKE USE OF THE GRACE OF GOD TO LUBRICATE THEIR HEARTS CAN FIND THEMSELVES ALWAYS FORGIVING THOSE WHO HURT THEM.
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